What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard kind and fixed outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, constantly with regard for (shared) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is often a fantastic physical, mental well-being. Usually, the receiver is really unwinded, splendidly streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and also feels (eventually) from the heart.
Filled with attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think of yesterday or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or receiving the massage. A really conscious touch from the heart. Get likewise extremely knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the question. Whatever occurs in the moment, in complete awareness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not planned (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. You never ever understand how it will end up. It is not the technique or the desired series of rubbing that is crucial, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, love constantly has a suitable response. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed. Adequate is that the provider is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a very unexpected course. Everything suits a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the very first action in an excellent development.
Ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long period of time, obviously, however since the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually shown up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver constantly should be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly comes.
Set clear limits in advance
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise completely ok (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow freely
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (mutual) limits. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually great, often tasty. We, for that reason, invite you to totally delight in getting ánd offering a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have particular practices and strategies in typical. There is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (aimed at pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at healing).
Well due to the fact that you are actually very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is a profession apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the short article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- prior to you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, however also psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is demand totally free, don't press or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* As soon as in a while ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Don't work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are mainly extremely open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, of course. However, understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to restored freezing moments. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and offer combination minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't hurry to the weather dig this ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn exactly what it resembles to enjoy yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides a wonderfully liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The whole body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being (of both).